Friday, January 27, 2012

The Principle of Friendship

MOST PEOPLE do not care about friendship, and sometimes they do not know that it is an essential thing so they do not list as priority. However, if somebody moves from one place to his new neighbours, he has to make new friends. Nobody can live alone. When the baby is born, they need help from other people. Somebody tries to walk on the rail and make balance for her/himself but over and over again he fails. On the bad situation, come to her/his friend and offer to walk  together. Then, they walk together by hand in hand, by this way they can walk without losing his balance until the end of the rail. We realize that a friend is very important for us. Friends are big investment in our life and a gift given to ourself.


Then, how to have friends as much as possible? Actually there are so many things that we have to do to get a lot of friends. But in here, we will learn the principle of friendship.


1. Be an honest person


Honesty is an essential thing wherever you are. Don't be afraid of being yourself and take care one step openly level between your friend. A good friend  will not consider your condition if you are from a poor or from an honourable family. It doesn't matter.


2. Be a forgiving person


Don't get angry easily, if your friend makes a mistake or hurts you. You will be a great person if you can apologize him/her and make a good situation. Friendship should be taken care of. It is good for you to be a forgiving person. Your friends will appreciate and like you. 


3. Be a wise person


No one is perfect. So don't look perfection in your friends behaviour. Try to accept them more and less. You should learn how to be a wise person.


4. Help each other


Avoid being a selfish person. You should help your friend when they need your help. A real friend always helps those who need a hand. On the contrary, you will be helped by your friend, too, If you are in a bad situation. To tell the truth, a real friendship should help each other.


5. Be an appreciative person


It is very important to appreciate other people. Many ways to reflect appreciation for other people, such as listening to carefully when he/she is speaking, don't forget to say, "thank you", "I am sorry", "Can I help you". Answer their question well. Do not change the topic and interrupt when the other is talking. Remember his/her name and call them with their right name. It is a good idea to write their name and address especially your new friend.


Maybe, you have many concepts of friendship but the most important is how to practise it well. OK, do you want to make friends? Try those explained above. You will get what you want. Good luck.

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